/pt/ – Petrarchan

Why do they bring it up in the weirdest unprompted moments??????????? They don't have any other friends to talk about it with they gotta share with me, a random woman in their peripheral lives? We are not even friends bro. Everyone from 60 year old crusty ballsack bags to teenage shitlings keeps bringing it up with me. I want to chimp out, literally start throwing shit around, every time

The one broaching the topic of sex for the first time is the one with sex on this mind. <- this never failed me. Eventually, the same guy bringing sex as a topic would try something down the line. The oversharing is sometimes some sort of exhibitionist performance. If it keeps happening, then you need to wonder what is it about your behaviour that attract them.

are we supposed to pretend men are the ones talking about sex too much now

I hate it when women claim men need to be more "in touch with their emotions" and then act like vultures circling in wait for the smallest sign of weakness

I have never claimed that you can go ahead and put them emotions away honey

Your inability to perform discretion in service of social fluidity is not "a sign of weakness" you absolute fucking faggot.

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I keep seeing catty /r/redscarepod women on here trying to act like Azealia Banks.

>> 1486 Still better than the fags doing the same.

boy oh boy, wait until you meet a woman

>>1560 "Uhh but they do it too" shut up no 60 year old woman coworker has ever told me about her plans to go to the Phillipines to marry a young male bride and live cheaply. Meanwhile I'm sure every person reading this can name at least two examples of meeting this person in their lives.

>>1572 I’ve never met a guy like that but I have met too many women describing the penis of the last man they were with or showing a picture for no reason. Too many women, especially young women, cannot shut up about men.

Right? The way they talk about women is so dehumanizing too - rather than having intimacy in mind, it’s like they see it as some kind of conquest/“trophy” all while shaming women for putting out “too much”.

Alright then op, I won't be a sensitive young man because you asked.

>>1599 I don’t agree with the OP’s misandry at all but you’re retarded if you think that’s what she meant for you to do

the only time people want to hear your thoughts is if they find you attractive (even non-sexually) otherwise, no one cares. they're just waiting for their turn to speak. no one cares what you have to say

>>1663 heuristically this is true... but have you never been impressed by someone you dislike making a surprisingly good point? it's not impossible

>>1165 not really, if anything i'm more annoyed that now i have to pay attention to someone i prefer to ignore. so i will punish them some other way

>>1667 the inability to re-assess your opinion of people is a negative trait. you should, in my opinion, try and find reasons to think well of others.

>>1668 at some point in the future, you will realize that not everyone has some hidden virtue or redeeming quality. I hope that you remember posting this naive bullshit and feel shame.

>>1670 not everyone, but most people.

I like when anyone overshares with me because I take their information and transmute it into knowledge. Knowledge is power. My goal is to one day be very powerful.

>>1463 (OP) I appreciate that my friends have enough trust in me to tell me about their lives, their problems, their desires, etc. However, it becomes annoying when they monopolize the conversation without allowing you to make comments, or even share your own experiences. I swear I met some people that wanted me to be their psychiatrist, be silent and nod whenever they were in the midst of their schizo rambling. These people I despise with all my soul. A good friend is the one that trusts you, but also listens back.

>>1994 I have a friend who does this to me. I get that he has depression but it’s like every day. I’ll wake up at like 8 am and I’ll text him what’s up and he’ll be like ”hey man… shit day again…” like dude you haven’t done anything. I got him to go to rehab and kick his drug addiction and he did, but he replaced it with a jewelry and kratom addiction. Now he’s financing like $2500 jewelry when he can’t even afford his car payments and he’s going to get his car repossessed soon. He’ll make all this progress and then shoot himself in the foot for no reason. Sorry about the rant but it’s been driving me nuts for weeks. I support him and genuinely want him to be better, so seeing him ruin himself financially is frustrating. He just complains and wallows about his problems but doesn’t do anything about it. Lives with his parents and works a minimum wage job, but he argues a lot with his mom get kicked out for a few days and then sleeps in his car for days and complains to me about living in a car and how shit it is like he didn’t do it to himself. Just realized this is kind of oversharing. Oh well.

>>1999 >He just complains and wallows about his problems but doesn’t do anything about it. oh man, that's a loop it's going to be pretty hard to get him out of. even though it's obvious you care about him, sometimes we can do nothing to change others' minds and we end up shouting at a rock. of course it's frustrating, but sometimes our best shoot is to actually try to distract them with our company. best of luck.

Why are women so delusional

>>1572 The true houellebecquian man, living the dream and savouring an underage cutie on some godforsaken island. Swell.