Mine is my skin. I know it's not super bad but I still hate it. It's annoying because I wash and moisturize twice a day and have even changed my diet. It seems that my pores are just genetically large. I try to avoid being super close to people because of it
Honestly looks fine anon. You have nothing to worry about. But I get you, I'm an average looking person and I can't stand to see myself in the mirror or in photos.
I'm pretty ugly, but it doesn't really bother me in the way most people are bothered by their physical insecurities. What really gets under my skin (pun intended) is that people just kind of don't really like me too much. They don't hate me, but there's something abstract and intangible about me that pushes people away; even those who I manage to befriend drift away inevitably after periods of time. No one who I have asked has any forthright answer about this. "Oh yeah I like you, what's the issue, why do you think people hate you?" Yet, I have been crushingly isolated since I could remember.
Well I can tell you that it isn't because of your skin
You folks are really bad at reading comprehension.
oh that's why people don't really like you
Yes, yes, I know. I was already browbeaten into silence by you people for decades, thinking that if I'm servile and quiet and agreeable and I won't be rejected. No, a snarky comment or two is not enough to disqualify one from socialization; there are far too many assholes out there who have friends and relationships for that to be the case. Instead, it is something far more essential, and cultural I suspect - Americans don't like being around others who make them feel insecure.
epic
>1291 americans are just like everyone else -- just looking to chat and have a good time. it sounds like you might lack some social skills and you're coping with "I'm too smart for everyone"
Never been intimate and scared of starting