Mine is my skin. I know it's not super bad but I still hate it. It's annoying because I wash and moisturize twice a day and have even changed my diet. It seems that my pores are just genetically large. I try to avoid being super close to people because of it
Honestly looks fine anon. You have nothing to worry about. But I get you, I'm an average looking person and I can't stand to see myself in the mirror or in photos.
I'm pretty ugly, but it doesn't really bother me in the way most people are bothered by their physical insecurities. What really gets under my skin (pun intended) is that people just kind of don't really like me too much. They don't hate me, but there's something abstract and intangible about me that pushes people away; even those who I manage to befriend drift away inevitably after periods of time. No one who I have asked has any forthright answer about this. "Oh yeah I like you, what's the issue, why do you think people hate you?" Yet, I have been crushingly isolated since I could remember.
Well I can tell you that it isn't because of your skin
Yes, yes, I know. I was already browbeaten into silence by you people for decades, thinking that if I'm servile and quiet and agreeable and I won't be rejected. No, a snarky comment or two is not enough to disqualify one from socialization; there are far too many assholes out there who have friends and relationships for that to be the case. Instead, it is something far more essential, and cultural I suspect - Americans don't like being around others who make them feel insecure.
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Never been intimate and scared of starting
Personality wise: having an anxious, shy aura due to social anxiety + autism that gets me misconstrued as conflict avoidant and a total pushover. Appearance wise: high body fat percentage therefore being flabby rather than firm/toned. Also sun damage showing as premature aging on skin because I didn’t understand the importance of sunscreen until it was too late.
I hate my whole face, it's disproportionately fatter than my whole body, and people are always surprised when they see how thin I actually am despite my face. I've always had a keen eye for aesthetics, and been into fashion, and I feel this hideous fat face betrays me. Aside from that, I also look significantly older than I am, and at 18/19 was getting approached by women in their 30s who said they thought I looked as if I was in my mid 30s.
I empathize. I wound up with rosacea (chronically red, easily flushed skin) after taking Accutane and have looked sunburnt for years now. There is no cure. It's been years since I've seen my own face in the mirror, and it's most likely that I never will see my own face again. I am going to kill myself over this. I have no choice.
I have chubby cheeks and a small chin (male.) In my mind's eye I look like those Vance memes.
My face is scarred because of a pretty severe case of acne that extended way past my teens. My nostrils are huge. I had a normal nose but I modified it through picking it (kek). I tend to fluctuate a lot between thinness and chubbiness (?), with a particular effect on my face. Anyway, I used to care a lot about these things, but honestly there are more important things in life. There's no point in crying about these things (ironic, since I wrote that).
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Kinda lazy, easily distractable, can't finish projects, total pseud so I stay humble to avoid drawing attention to it, but in reality I'm resentful that I never put in the effort to achieve much or expand my knowledge, etc.
Physical aspect: >ugly: acne, huge nose, thick lips... I'm essentially an Habsburg. Also I'm starting to bald kek. >weak (I run and do aerobics, but I can't carry heavy things, or defend myself if needed) >I have a limp Psychological aspect: >procrastinate everything of importance >socially anxious, extreme awkwardness >easily addicted to things like 4chan and Reddit >start a plethora of projects, just to quit before I could get any significant amount of skill or knowledge (drawing, chess, writing, history, coding, etc., etc.) As such, I have a basic overview of an ample quantity of subjects, but there's not a single field where I would stand out >tend to be paranoic: X is saying Y to me because he wants me to help him do Z, or worse, to make fun of me >whenever I feel offended I don't speak up, just shrug and laugh nervously, which leads to me having a lot of resentment internally. This leads to hypocrisy >I daydream a lot, and get way ahead of myself: this has made me act in creepy ways without me even realizing it >I fear what people will think of me >If someone asks me to do something I don't want to, I accept nonetheless, or postpone my decision till I can come up with a shitty excuse >I tend to feel smarter than others, when in truth I'm a pseud. My family and friends have an image of me that doesn't relate to the real me (I've read a lot, but that doesn't mean I'm "smart", I play chess but that isn't linked to iq, qué diantres) That's more or less it. Feelsbad.
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